Thursday, 29 August 2019

Phyllis Lillian Crosby Osborne 1905 – 1990

Phyllis Lillian Crosby Osborne 1905 – 1990

Until the last few years of her life when she moved into Laidley to be near her husband who was confined in a nursing home, Phyllis lived her whole life at Townson, at the top of the Laidley Creek Valley. The valley is a narrow strip about 2.5 kms wide, bounded on the west by the Mistake Range of mountains and on the east by the Little Liverpool Range with the Laidley Creek running through it. The flat land gets narrower as you progress up the valley, or up the creek as the locals say.

She was the oldest of 10 children although one of her brothers died at birth and she was the first child to be baptised in St George's Church of England at Clarke's Bridge. She was born at the end of a severe drought, the worst the settlers had seen since they arrived in the valley. Even the birds were dying, then just before Christmas four inches (10cms) of rain fell in a storm and it kept on raining. The kookaburras were so weak from the dry period that when they dived from the trees into the rain-soaked earth in pursuit of worms, they became stuck with their beaks and could not escape.

She knew the story of that drought and remembered clearly the next big drought that occurred when she was 13. During that dry period the area was burnt out by a bushfire. A few days later a huge hail storm caused the creek to burst its banks. The water was as black as ink because of the washoff from the fire and killed many fish which were found dead on the banks. No cod have been caught in the Laidley Creek since then. 

Flood, drought and fire.  She grew up and lived with it all.  

She loved to tell her grandchildren of days gone by, the things that shaped her. The things she never forgot and the things she wanted us to know about our history.  Even simple things like how to tell the time if the clocks stopped.  When we were off playing in the hills or in the creek, we knew how to know when it was time to come home for lunch.  We kept an eye on the sida-retusa bushes (also known as Paddy's Lucerne) and when the flowers opened we would know it was around 12 noon.   

Her father was a colourful and jovial personality, a big man, 6 ft 3 ins in height with a wide knowledge of bushcraft. He was well known as a narrator of tales of the bush and the early settlers of the district. Sam knew every hill, hollow and wallaby track on the entire mountain and was noted as a guide for the many sightseers. He is said to have entertained his tour parties with his versions of popular poems of the day. His interpretations of Banjo Paterson's "The Man from Snowy River” and “The Old Bark Hut” delivered in the atmosphere of a camp fire on the mountain were performances to be remembered. 



Sam, second from right, and a group of visitors to Mt Mistake.

After leaving school he had worked carting timber and produce by bullock wagon from Mt Mistake down the valley to Laidley.   He must have been a tough, hardy soul and have also known every yard of the road from the mountain to Laidley, having travelled them so many times with either a horse or bullock team.  

Sam and his brother, Alfred and their bullock team.

Later he purchased a farm at the foot of Mt Mistake where he worked and lived until his death in October, 1948. He had been a leading figure in the district and was a tireless worker for the school, church, Laidley Council and Show Committee and became involved in anything that might benefit the progress of the valley. He was elected to Laidley Shire Council in 1919 and served continuously until 1946 when he stated indifferent health as the cause for declining nomination for re-election.


It's a quick drive into Laidley these days but those 28 miles must have seemed a lot longer when walking beside your team in the heat (or mud). 

When he acquired a truck, it was always at the service of the people of the valley - taking the worshippers to and from church at Thornton, the young folk to the dances, picture shows, picnics and sports.



The school teacher at the little district school always boarded with his family and there is an amusing account of the life of one of these teachers (1935-1937) in the booklet prepared for the school centenary celebrations in 1981. She travelled from Brisbane to Laidley and then on the little side line to Mulgowie in the guards van at the end of a goods train.

She tells how when she finally reached her destination she heard the guard announce, "Here's your teacher for you, Sam." And the reply, "To hell with the teacher! Where's the bloody tractor I ordered a month ago." It should be added that Sam had been waiting for the train at the Mulgowie Pub and was more than a little inebriated.

She described him as a likable old character - six foot three, jacky-howe singlet with belly hanging over a wide belt that held up his trousers, at the bottom of which were not two feet but one and a half. (His brother had chopped his foot off when he was a kid.)

On the journey home Sam hit a hare, stopped, got out, picked it up and threw it onto the truck, got back into the truck and said, "We'll have hare pie for tea tomorrow night, teacher." And they did.

Sam died when I was three years old. It would have been fun to know such a colourful, jovial character.

He was the second son of James Watson Crosby (1840-1929) of Yorkshire and Mary Anne Evans (1851-1917) from Wales, who were among the first settlers of Townson in the Laidley Creek Valley.  They lived at the end of the road (before there was anything that resembled a road) in the foothills of Mt Mistake which sits within the Main Range National Park in south east Queensland.

Phyllis attended the tiny Townson school, about 3 kms from her home. The pupils were all from 5 families. 

A classroom of a school of the time.  Note the Good Manners chart.

She could never be drawn about her school days except to say she liked running. She must also have liked writing because when she was eleven years old she was the local correspondent to the Queensland Times. The newspaper was a vital link to the outside world before electricity or telephones came along. Every district had a small space in the paper for their local news. The articles were usually gossipy items such as who attended the monthly meeting of the Country Womens' Association, who won the “Best Apron” competition and who won the lucky door prize. But also covered birth and death notices. Before then she wrote letters to popular columns of the newspaper such as Uncle William's Letter Bag and must have been thrilled when one of her letters was published. She also had her name published a couple of times for making donations to the Children's Corner Cot Fund.   

Everyone in the family had a part to play in the running of the farm. The cows were milked by hand but even before a child was big enough to perform that task there were other jobs to be done. Herding the cows or feeding the chooks as Phyllis would say. And, in the summer, when they were lucky enough to have water in the creek, a bath in the creek before dinner. Water was always a scarce commodity and not to be wasted. The clanking of the windmill was the comforting background music of her life.

Phyllis worked on the farm when she left school and took part in all the district activities. There were frequent balls and dances. She was known to be a good cook and an excellent dressmaker, a handy skill to have when you had to make your own balldresses. She was smart dresser throughout her life, always making her own clothes. And, as she grew older, the clothes for her family. Her wedding present when she married was a grandfather clock and a Singer sewing machine.

The Crosby girls -  Elsie, Edie, Phyllis, Stella (unknown children) outside their family home.

She married Jesse Noah Osborne (known as Noah) when she was 20 in 1925. He was 6 years older than her and said he'd had his eye on her since she was a girl at school and could “run like the wind”.  I heard him describe how she looked when she ran many times and his descriptions would change depending on his mood.  Sometimes he's say she looked like a young graceful gazelle, other times like a hare with buckshot up its backside.  


A paddock and the creek separated her old family home from the home she made with Noah. A little gully that emptied into the creek ran along the back of their house. A wonderful place for children and grandchildren to play. 




The home she and Noah created for themselves and their family.  You can see the outbuildings of her parents farm in the distance on the left hand side.

These days it has been modernised:



But the sight of it whenever I go to Townson, when I first arrive at the creek crossing, sitting there back off the road with the hills and mountains behind it still stops my heart.  I hear Gran saying, "Car at the creek."



About 100 metres to the left, just a bit further up the gully was the cowshed. 

The soil of the flat paddocks beside the creek was rich and eventually they stopped milking cows and grew crops mainly, potatoes, pumpkin, onions and watermelons but later on they leased the land to a company similar to our Watties who grew and harvested things like beetroot, lettuce, broccolini.  This valley these days produces around 40% of the fresh vegetables consumed in South East Queensland. 

Just add water

Phyllis and Noah had five children, my mother, Lily being the oldest.  Their oldest son, John was a policeman, the other two sons, George and Reg were farmers.  Maisie also married a farmer.   Phyllis was the most wonderful grandmother anyone could possibly imagine.  We all adored her.  She loved us all and never compared one with the other.  After she died I travelled to Mount Isa to spend time with my two sisters, Esme and Tricia.  Esme had not been able to travel to Laidley for the funeral so one night the three of us had dinner at the Irish Club and held our own wake.  I had left Mt Isa is 1973 and people who came in and recognised me or my sisters would stop to chat.  We told them all they were welcome to join us but we were telling Gran stories.  with 10-12 people around the tabled being entertained.  

Fancy dress evenings were popular and Phyllis' children were often amongst the prize winners.  Here Lily's costume is titled the Century in Between, John is a golliwog and Maisie is a handbag.  (Political correctness had not been heard of.)

























































Marriage 1925 to Jesse Noah Osborne
Lillian Phyllis Ward 1926 - 2016
John 1927 – 1981 m Leona (Sandra, Wayne, Brenda, Julie) 
Maisie m Trevor Turnbull (Gayle, Douglas, Max)
George m Jan Peters (Neil, Beth and Robyn)
Reginald 1938 - 2007 m Lorraine Goos (Shane, Diane


Wednesday, 28 August 2019

Catherine Squires Crosby 1877 – 1968

Catherine Squires Crosby 1877 – 1968

It doesn’t matter that my great-grandmother was yet another Catherine in my family tree.  I was lucky enough to know her, so don’t get her mixed up with any of the others.  I have lasting impressions of a placid old lady - bent and hobbling with the help of two sticks in the last years of her life but always happy to see us when we arrived to visit.
 
She died in the November of 1968, during a heat wave.  At 91 the heat must have been too much for her.  It was hard for me to imagine that anything would be too much for her.  She seemed indomitable.   I was thankful that the previous year I had visited her and she had the opportunity to hold my oldest child, Danny, her first great-great-grandchild.  She had really loved that. 


The young Kate 

Throughout the young lives of my siblings and myself we spent our school holidays at Townson, at the head of the Laidley Creek Valley.  This was where Kate had come as a toddler with her parents and where she had grown up with her three brothers and three sisters and other pioneers of the district.

The fertile flats alongside Laidley Creek, with the Little Liverpool Range to the east and the Mistake Mountains to the west, are reputed to be some of Australia's most fertile farming land.  The road up the valley follows Laidley Creek and distances are often referred to as how far up the creek something is.


When the young Kate married Sam Crosby they lived almost as far up the valley as the road goes these days.  But way back in the very early 1900s there was a thriving timber mill up in those hills at the head of the valley, complete with workers' cottages and school bus.  Before Thornton School was built, one of my ancestors, George Crosby who had arrived from England to work at the mill, gave lessons to the children.  He was later killed by a log on the mountain. 

Below is a screen shot from Google Earth which shows quite clearly the lush farms alongside the creek in the valley and the surrounding mountains.


Kate and Sam made a home for themselves in what had been the Laidley hospital.  It had been moved to its current location by bullock team. 

The house being moved up the valley

From a wide central hallway there were rooms opening off each side and a wide verandah around three sides.  Out the back door you walked across a walkway covered with a corrugated iron roof but the sides open to the elements, railings of rough, untreated wood, across a small verandah and into the kitchen which had been the original Townson School.  The length of the kitchen was roughly the same as the width of the house.  Down one end was a huge dining table that would have seated 12-14, maybe more, and up the other end was a smaller table, cupboards and the old wood stove.  (One of the back bedrooms was converted to a kitchen in her later life.)  You can see the house with the kitchen at the back in the old photo below.



The kitchen is gone now but the distinctive shape of the house remains.  Wooden railings on the verandahs replace the beautiful old wrought iron work.  You can see it in the background of this photo, taken around 1950.   I’m standing on the right, my second cousin, Audrey Whiteway is beside me.  To Audrey’s right is another second cousin, Colleen Crosby with (I think) my brother Peter in front of her, then my brother Denis and sister Esme.  I can’t remember who the child in front is. 


A gathering of the district is 1907.  Kate is on the right at the end of the front row holding her first born, my grandmother, Phyllis.  Sam is the tall striking second gentleman from the right.  He sure knew how to strike a pose.

Our grandmother always took us to ‘pay our respects’ to Great-granny every holiday.  Although she lived just across a paddock and on the other side of the creek we dressed for the occasion.  We were bathed and scrubbed, hair brushed, dressed in our best clothes, carried our shoes and socks to the creek and put them on when we reached the other side.  It’s hard to believe these days when we dress so casually, that my grandmother also donned her Sunday best, complete with hat and handbag.  She even put on her stockings after we crossed the creek.  By the time we got to the other side of the paddock, our shoes and socks were usually filthy but they had to stay on until the formal part of the visit was over.  After greetings we would all proceed to a long stool which sat on the small verandah outside the kitchen.  We children would sit (quietly) there while Gran and her mother disappeared into the kitchen.  I would sometimes be called (as the oldest) to come and carry out the cake or drinks.  Gran and Great-granny would emerge with their cups of tea and they would decide whether we stayed there or moved to a side verandah of the house if there was any sort of breeze to be found.    We were always given a slice of home made cake each or a homemade biscuit and a drink of warm cordial.  I can still taste that cordial, it was horrid, sickly sweet and never cold.    Once settled we would eat our cake as daintily as we know how and chat politely to Great-granny, which basically involved answering her questions about the family, school, etc.  Then Gran would say we could take off our shoes and socks and go to play.  But not to chase the chooks or go into the creek.  And we would be free to explore what had changed since our last visit.  Top of the list would be to have a look at the causeway where the road crossed the creek to see if any swimming holes had appeared.   As we girls grew older we were expected to stay with the ladies and join in the conversation.  (How come the boys never had to do that?  Not that I can remember anyway.) 

I remember her youngest daughter, Edie saying that great-granny did not see the arrival of electricity (in 1959) as any great event.  She never trusted it and only ever had one power point in the kitchen for an electric kettle and a couple of points in bedrooms. 

I was always impressed by how, although getting around was obviously difficult for her, she was always cheerful.  And would often comment that there were plenty worse off than her and the walking sticks came in handy if she had to chase the chooks.  She survived the floods and droughts of the valley and, as I mentioned, seemed indomitable.  I admired her greatly.  She seemed to be very true to herself and obviously retained the love and respect of her children.  I always got the impression that she had created security for herself and her family despite the many hardships she must have faced.   As a young mother I aspired to be like her and my grandmother.  I hoped the mould wouldn’t break.

Kate's youngest daughter, Edie aged 97, third from left, centre row in the photo below with other descendents of the Crosby family at the annual Back to Townson weekend held each year at Crosby Park, Townson.

And, below, my brothers Michael and Peter, me and sister Clare shelter from the sun at Crosby Park, on a sentimental trip up the creek after our mother died in 2016.


Known facts:
Born 16 September, 1877 in Toowoomba to Catherine (Kate) Thompson and John Squire
Married Samuel Watson Crosby

Phyllis Lillian 1905 - 1990 (my grandmother)
Travers, 1907 and passed away that same day
William Eric (Eric) 1908 - 2007
Archie 1909 - 1954
Stella (Myers) 1911 - 
Elsie (Whiteway) 1913 – 1978
Sydney (Syd) 1915 - 2007
Samuel David (Dave) 1916 - 2016
James Watson 1919 – 1928
Edie (Bambling) 1920 – (was still alive in 2019)

Directions to Townson:  Head south from Laidley along Patrick St to Lions Park and Narda Lagoon; follow the signs to Mulgowie then to Thornton; continue towards Mt Mistake and Townson at the end of the valley, where Crosby Park has picnic facilities alongside Laidley Creek.